What is it with this attitude, so prevalant among Mormons, that this life is just a bunch of trials you have to endure through until you are safely dead? Isn't life about more than that? Is life really something awful that we have to just get through?
I know that life is a "probationary state" (Alma 42), and that we are here to be "proved" (Abraham 3).
But didn't Christ come that we might have "life, and that [we] might have it more abundantly"? (John 10:10) Are men not, that they might have joy? (2 Ne 2:15) Isn't the gospel call a "voice of gladness"? (D&C 128:19) Is all the joy and abundant life reserved for the afterlife??
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You are absolutely right, Shiz - we're here to have joy. I think the tendency you're talking about is not so much an LDS failing as it is a human failing. I'm sure you saw the stark contrast between the Russian Orthodox method of looking at things - that this life is a trial, and it'll only stop being bad when we die, and the LDS doctrinal approach, that Christ will help us bear our burdens in this life. But we see very often this human tendency towards pessimism - for instance, those who believe that there is no right or wrong, but only power and those brave enough to take it. That's a very pessimistic view of human nature. In our church I think there is more of a tendency to be depressed because we're not measuring up to the Peter Priesthood or Molly Mormon ideal.
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If ye love wealth better than liberty, the tranquility of servitude than the animated contest of freedom, go from us in peace. May your chains sit lightly upon you, and may posterity forget that you were our countrymen! - Samuel Adams
My most recent theory on life is that people forget, and that's why life can get difficult.
If you forget to pray, you don't have that added power. If you forget to read the scriptures, you don't have that added spirit. By forgetting the power of the Atonement and not applying it in our lives, we bring so much pain and sorrow into our lives that we don't really need. By forgetting the joys, happiness, and blessings in our lives, we come to think that we just have to pass through all of our trials. Sometimes just by remembering the Plan of Happiness, our trials are more insignificant than they once appeared, and we can have joy again. All you really have to do is look around you to find joy, and many people seem to forget that.
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Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you.
— Oscar Wilde
It does seem like that sometimes. I have told myself on several occassions that this or that just has to be endured. There are times though when it's not and I actually am enjoying myself. Those times keep me going.
Did I trigger this by what I said in the other thread about when the second coming will occur?
It is an interesting question.
Perhaps the trend tends to go with the conceptual understanding many have of "enduring to the end."
Adam fell that man might be. Men are that they might have joy.
Joy is learning to recognize, and with gratitude, to accept the good things and hope and happiness and beauty of this sphere of existence even while in the midst of the trials sorrows and hardship. It is the personal overcoming of sin in a sinful world, and thereby the humble recognition that He who is sinless paid the price for that sin and has forgiven the sinner who repents.
I think that members of the Church are not immune to the impatience inherent to our mortal sphere. We all would like our trials to be over quickly. We want, and maybe expect, that the hardships we face will be cured in the 60 minute Brady Bunch formula. We get so focused on what we would like to have or be, we lose focus on the present, and in the process we lose proper aspect of the future, blaming everything on our perception of the present.
In the light of the second coming prediction thread, I wonder if maybe this phenomena is kind of related to the fascination some members have in looking for the signs of the second coming. People, in both instances, are aware of the ugliness and wicknedness of the world we live in. Some may hope to be freed from mortality relatively quickly so that they don't have to endure the harder times that will precede His return. Others maybe are hoping the day of His return is hastened so that things won't get much worse, and hence look with great anticipation for the signs. Me personally, I'm probably somewhere in the middle, but certainly have no desire (if it were my druthers) to be around longer than I need to be.
Which attitude is correct? Both? Neither? I think it depends on where our desires lie. Remember how when Christ called the Nephite Disciples at his post-resurrection appearance to the New World, he asked what they each wanted of Him? Nine asked that they could come speedily unto Him when their mortal mission was done. And three asked that they be allowed to teach and bring people to Christ until He came again. The Lord was pleased and felt that all their desires were righteous, and granted them. But, He appeared to be even more pleased with the three, for their's was less selfish. And, he granted unto them that they would no longer feel the pains and sorrows of mortality, and that Satan would no longer have the power to tempt them. (See 3 Nephi 28)
How sweet would that be! I think that if the same condition and promise was available to the rest of us, far fewer of us would wish for and ask to be allowed to return speedily to Him in His kingdom (or hope the day of His coming would be hastened).
Anway, just my thoughts...
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It seems to me the only thing you've learned is that Caesar is a "salad dressing dude."
When it comes right down to it, you can be depressed or happy about anything. For instance, Cat, you could either choose to be depressed that you have a child who requires a great deal more effort than a child without that same problem, or you could choose to be happy that the Lord supports you in overcoming that challenge. We are given plenty of challenges in this life. We most definitely do not live in the garden of Eden. So I think that everything depends on our attitude about our trials. Do we allow our challenges to bring us closer to Heavenly Father? Then we are happier. Do we allow our challenges to get us down? Then we are farther away from Him. So I do not think that having troubles makes you pessimistic. We all have troubles. What determines whether you are optimistic or pessimistic entirely depends on what you do with them. So, to get to Cat's example, acknowledging that the world is going to hell in a handbasket does not mean that you are pessimistic or depressed. I know plenty of people who believe that Christ is coming soon, that the world is headed for unprecedented trials and tribulations before He gets here, but they are still happy and optimistic. Being happy and upbeat in this life does not mean ignoring what's going on in your life and the world around you. It means having a positive attitude and depending on the Lord for strength.
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If ye love wealth better than liberty, the tranquility of servitude than the animated contest of freedom, go from us in peace. May your chains sit lightly upon you, and may posterity forget that you were our countrymen! - Samuel Adams
I think arbi, we're kind of on the same wave length now, in a round about way from that other thread. I wasn't quite sure how to answer your response when I saw it there. I think I can do so now and not have it come across wrong.
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It seems to me the only thing you've learned is that Caesar is a "salad dressing dude."
The gospel gives us joy and the hope for a brighter tomorrow.
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Earthlife is but a tiny blip on the line of eternity, but it is this testing, proving blip that will determine the type of joy, gladness and abundant life that we will experience for the rest of eternity.
What about joy and hope for a brighter TODAY?? Is it all about tomorrow?
And the second statement is just the sort of attitude I am talking about. So life is miserable--just endure this miserable little blip, and you'll be happy for the rest of eternity. That just looks on life as a torturous thing to be endured. I've got (hopefully) 70+ years on this earth. I don't want to view it as a miserable thing I've got to get through. That makes me more despondent than thinking that there is nothing after death...
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Actually, Cat, this was triggered by our Gospel Doctrine class yesterday, as we discussed Matthew 11:28-30. It amazed me how many people just think that Christ's promise of rest in those verses only applies to the afterlife. That isn't how I see it at all!
I appreciate Arbi's comments about perspective, and on how this is a manifestation of pessimism. But I find this viewpoint to be rather widespread in the Church. What are we teaching or failing to teach that gives rise to it?
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I'm not voting for Ron Paul because it's not expressly prescribed in the Constitution.
The Buddists say "Life is suffering." They don't have Christ.
Peter said, in 1 Peter 1: 5-11 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a livelyhope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,
4 To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,
5 Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.
6 Wherein ye greatly rejoice, though now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations:
7 That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ:
8 Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:
9 Receiving the end of your faith, even the salvation of your souls.
The fact is, Shiz, that a lot of people have trials and afflictions. Things seldom work out the way we want them to... If you feel a lack of hardship right now in your life, then get more involved in the lives of your fellow ward members, and you'll find hardships and challenges that they endure that you can be grateful you don't.
We all take our turn in the fire.
But we receive the assurance through Christ that our trials are to our benefit.
A lot of people come to church because their weaknesses have humbled them. They seek the calm and peaceful reassurances of the Holy Spirit that their suffering and challenges, or the suffering and challenges of others has meaning and that if they remain faithful they will be delivered.
God sees fit to chasten his people. Again rejoice if you are not currently being tried or chastened and wish to glory in the Lord, his bounty, the joys of life--go right ahead! It's a blessing to do so, and perhaps it is your calling at this point in your life. You can serve as an example in this regard. You are to be commended for continuing in the faith when you have no afflictions of your own--when you are not compelled to be humble. Just try to be patient with those who are in church for reasons other than your own...
I like to hope that if I pay careful attention to them and their wisdom, God might spare me their trials... cuz well... I'm not real big on passing through trials... despite Peter's words that our trials will someday be more precious to us than any earthly treasure...
--Ray
-- Edited by rayb at 13:19, 2007-03-12
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I confess, I may have purposefully misread your comments to make a point. I don't complain about members who remind themselves that trials are a part of life, mostly because I'm not burdened with their trials... I do agree we should try to be happy in our trials, but in my ward with some of the trials I've been privvy to witnessing in others... well... I hold my breath and hope I've learned their lessons, so I don't have to experience them... Hehehe...
(Oh and the scriptures really do spend a lot of time discussing the "problem" of trials... )
--Ray
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If ye love wealth better than liberty, the tranquility of servitude than the animated contest of freedom, go from us in peace. May your chains sit lightly upon you, and may posterity forget that you were our countrymen! - Samuel Adams
BTW, meaning of life is always one area where I always thought our religion greatly outshines others. Even Christian religions typically imagine heaven as a place where you sit around strumming a harp all day. At least we know what our purpose will be if we make it to heaven. It always seemed to me to be rather a poor incentive: if you're good all your life, despite all odds, then you too can learn to play the harp!
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If ye love wealth better than liberty, the tranquility of servitude than the animated contest of freedom, go from us in peace. May your chains sit lightly upon you, and may posterity forget that you were our countrymen! - Samuel Adams
Most Christain religion's views of the afterlife are pretty discouraging. When you ask a main stream Christain's take on what will happen they talk of living in peace, and love, and singing forever as angels. I would rather go to HEDOUBLEHOCKEYSTICK then spend my eternity like that. With the true gospel we have a roadmap. This is where we came from, this is why we're here, this is what we need to do, this is where we can go, and this is what we can become. A lot more motivating. When I went to the evangelical Christain school as a lad they told me that as long as I accepted Jesus in my heart I would go to heaven no matter what. Add that to the view of heaven and eternity they espoused and I could see no reason not to party every day for the rest of my life like a drugged up monkey in heat. I mean as long as I accepted Him in my heart I was saved and eternity looked pretty bleak anyway, I might as well have some fun. Thankfully the true gospel has the complete skinny and the eternities look a lot better under the Lord's real plan.