When you got married, do you feel like you changed a lot?  Do you feel like your spouse changed a lot?  Whose personality is stronger... do you feel like you've been sucked in to your spouse's life and left more of you behind or vice versa?

I saw a cat commercial and thought of arbi raising Russian cats.  It's like he went on this mission to Russia and suddenly he's got Russian kids and Russian cats now consuming his life.  Not that that's bad, of course.  Just got me thinking of the topic...